You ever have that “I need a vacation” urge, but then you find that your friends have school, work, children, husbands, mistresses, and everything else going on under the sun that you all just can’t seem to plan a trip? Don’t be scared of traveling alone, though. Many people find that traveling alone is just as great or even better than going on a group excursion. How do you think Stella got her groove back? Touring the world solo can be a wonderful experience, but just like everything else, you have to know how to do it right. Here are some tips for traveling alone successfully.
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Plan Ahead of Time
Just because you have decided that you are going on vacation on your own doesn’t mean that you should just go there and wing it. You should already know what activities are offered to you and what restaurants are around when you get there. The best part about being solo is that you really don’t have to do anything or go anywhere. But if you do decide to partake in the sights and attractions, then you should have a list of what to do and where. Also consider the locations frequented by the locals, so you can get the best of both worlds. Isn’t it refreshing to not have to deal with the “we MUST do something” pressures?
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Pack Clothes that Are Suitable for Travel
When you’re home alone, walking around in your sweats and old raggedy T-shirts may suffice, but when you are away walking around like you just rolled out of bed just won’t be tolerated. You want to look like you are a guest and not part of the housekeeping staff. Wear comfortable fabrics and do not wear clothing that will draw a lot of attention to yourself as a safety precaution.
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Bring Your Own Entertainment
If you want to make your trip a memorable one, bring your own entertainment. Bring a good book with you that you have been dying to read, but have not had a free moment to do so. Take along with you a great camera to document your journey. You can act as a professional photographer for a few days and nobody will even know the difference. If you do decide to bring your laptop or tablet, then try your best not to get caught up in social networking and what’s going on in your home life while you’re not there. Isn’t a break from all of that the reason you traveled alone anyway? Stay logged off! If you must, pick one day while you are away to Skype with your loved ones and then back to your “me” time.
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Date Yourself
Who could possibly be a better date than you? So why not pick a day and go on one with yourself? You can treat yourself to a nice massage, get decked out for a fancy dinner or hit the hiking trails. If you do the proper planning, like advised previously, there are endless date options. Be spontaneous and do something unexpected that you can share with your friends upon your return. And don’t forget to live it up while you’re there.
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Be Safe
Though having a fun yet relaxing time while on your solo mission is the goal, you do have to take the proper precautions to ensure your safety. You should always know where you’re going before you get there. Be aware of your surroundings at all times and those who are around you. Travel with your I.D., driver’s license, or passport, and also keep a list of emergency contacts should something happen. If you happen to meet other travelers, don’t reveal too much of your personal business. Keep the conversation casual because you just never know their true intentions. Make sure to be mindful of the fact that you are alone, but don’t let the fear of something negative happening ruin your trip. Be safe and have a good time.
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