Courtesy of YourTango
Being an exotic dancer has allowed me to gain massive insight into men, especially when I spend so much time around them. One of the benefits of being an exotic dancer is that I have the pleasure of speaking with various men about sex. I get so many different views and perspectives about sexuality. What better way to understand the thoughts and needs of a man than talking to them personally? I really enjoy the juicy and stimulating perspective of a man. As woman, we want to understand the thought processes of a man. We want to know what they really want and desire. It has been my joy to research top questions that women want to know but are afraid to ask. I take these questions to the work place so that I can bring you the most authentic, uncensored, and raw truth from men. I want to reveal 3 key things that I learned from men by being an exotic dancer.
1. They seek to be their authentic self.
One of the top reasons men come to gentlemen’s club is because they can be their authentic self. What do I mean by that? Many men have many hidden desires and fantasies such as threesomes, experiences with another woman, and fetishes of all sorts. Deep down inside, they want to reveal these things to their companion, but they are afraid of their response. A man’s number one fear is rejection. I have learned from talking to several men in many private sessions that they are afraid to express their true desires because they feel they will be judged. In return they would rather come to the gentleman clubs and pay for services because they feel more comfortable. Why do they feel more comfortable? Men feel more comfortable because they feel like they can let their guard down. Because we are already in a sexual atmosphere, they feel that they can express their innate needs without them feeling guilty and ashamed.
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