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Recently, one of our clients discovered a man she was attracted to on an online dating site. She was surprised because she had been skeptical about online dating. Then she began to make her first mistake — one that we see so many women make. She began to put a lot of expectations on this man and their possible relationship before they had even met. You see, she suffered from an issue that we confront with so many of our clients. She believed that she wouldn’t meet another man she was this interested in so she figured she better make this one work.
We told her what we want to share with you today — a good man is not a unicorn.
A good man is not a rare creature that, once discovered, must be hung onto for dear life. A good man is one of many millions of good men who exist in the world. And since he is not such a rare creature, you can take your time getting to know him before you invest any emotional energy on a possible future with him.
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