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Black Beauties: 10 Black Models And Celebs Featured In Spring Fashion Campaigns

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New York Fashion Week is once again underway as runway photos and street style shoots flood the Internet. It has only been a few months since September’s NYFW, when veteran supermodels and magazine bigwigs like Bethann Hardison, Iman, and Andre Leon Talley called the industry on the carpet for failing to showcase diversity. And it seems like things have changed, as fashion houses worldwide are seeing the beauty in brown skin. Models of color like Cindy Bruna, Malaika Firth, and Liya Kebede have infiltrated even the most exclusive fashion houses. But considering that there are literally continents full of people of color, one face per spread might not be enough. Still, it’s a start. Flip through to see which Black beauties are striking a pose in the spring/summer 2014 campaigns.

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Erykah Badu for Givenchy

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Malaika Firth for Burberry

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Cindy Bruna for Prada

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Lupita Nyong’o for Miu Miu

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Liya Kebede for Prabal Gurung

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Joan Smalls for Fendi

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Malaika Firth for Valentino

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Betty Adewole for Tom Ford

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Rihanna for Balmain

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Jourdan Dunn for Peter Pilotto for Target

RELATED: Star Style: 12 Iconic Black Supermodels Past & Present


Confessions: Mike Epps Gets Serious About Repentance

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By Satchel B. Jester

We all know Mike Epps for his gut-busting turns in movies such as Next Friday, Jumping the Broom and The Hangover I and III (and last year’s Twitter beef with Kevin Hart). But the longstanding comedian is switching it up. Building on the promise he showed in Sparkle, the Indianapolis native takes a full-on dramatic turn in the psychological thriller Repentance (out February 28), alongside Oscar winner Forest Whitaker, Anthony Mackie and Sanaa Lathan. We chat with the funnyman—who portrays his idol Richard Pryor in Nina, the controversial Nina Simone biopic starring Zoe Saldana—and discover how he keeps up, gets down and gives back. (And he talks about licking the icing off, too.)

Social media… turns people into celebrities overnight. It’s watereddown comedy, and has almost done away with true talent. I had to add something new to my brand because I’m from a different era. I’ve always been about my natural gift. Now, it’s about talent vs. popularity. If you want to work, you have to get with it.

My favorite joke… is about the inner city and the black folks who live in it. Let’s be real, even if you come from a family of doctors and have generations of highly educated relatives, I guarantee that everyone has some of “those” family members.

I don’t joke about… anything related to hurting kids. I don’t fool with that. But I make general crime funny all the time.

In my eyes… I’m a brand, not just an entertainer. I’m pursuing producing opportunities and looking to market myself to more crossover audiences.

Sensitivity… doesn’t belong onstage. You have to have some tough skin to do what I do. You actually have to have tough skin to survive period. Man up!

People don’t realize that… I’m human, too. I have days when I smile to keep from crying and being angry like everyone else. I make people laugh because that’s my job and my gift. There’s nothing shallow about me.

I have a soft spot for… at-risk youth. I started a foundation with my wife, Mechelle, in 2010 that supports the arts, culture and education globally with youth between the ages of 10 and 21. I give back as much as I can.

Black people… invented everything.

I’m conscious about… the work I do. I don’t care what the label is. I’m looking at the outcome of it.

Reinvention… is the key to having longevity in this business. You can’t keep doing the same stuff. I’ve turned down stuff and lost money. But I’m at a certain age where I don’t feel like tap dancing anymore.

Make sure… whatever you do is rooted in something real. Once you lick the icing off the cake, if it’s not good, it gets thrown away.

Photo credit: Samuel Whitworth

Why I Don’t Do Valentine’s Day

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UPTOWN_struck_by_cupidValentine’s Day is rapidly approaching and according to every single commercial and retail store, you must celebrate it. What are the exact origins of Valentine’s Day anyway? Well kids, I did my research (via Google) and honestly, there is no definitive answer. There was said to be a bishop named St. Valentine who secretly married people (around 270 A.D.) when it had been banned by some dude named Claudius, as he believed married men to be weak and, therefore, unable to fight as soldiers in war. There is no solid proof of this, however. And it is said that St. Valentine signed a note he wrote to his lover: “From Your Valentine.”

When I was a kid I obsessed over buying the cutest Valentine’s cards from the store. Why? Because we all had that handmade card holder attached to the front of our desk at school for classmates to leave their Valentines and treats for us. I would really, really, stress about how many cards or treats I would get, and who would give me one. Just think of Charlie Brown with his briefcase in class on Valentine’s Day … ummm … Yeah, that was me … kinda … Well, a lot. I put all of my hopes on this one day.

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There is something about Valentine’s Day that drives women into a frenzy of emotions. There is the bitter girl, the angry girl, the “I don’t need a man anyway” girl, the over-emotional girl, and the “I’m in love with love” girl. Which one are you? I think on some level I may have been everyone of these girls at different points in my love life. There were the high school years of pure naiveté when I thought the girls who had huge flower bouquets, candy-grams, or dates for Valentine’s were the luckiest and prettiest girls. Then, came the college years when I had my string of heartbreaks and thus couldn’t care less about Valentine’s Day. Fast-forward to after graduation when I hoped to live out the type of Valentine’s Day you see in the movies: He sends you flowers at work. You arrive at his house after work and walk into a room filled with rose pedals strewn across the floor, and candles lit. There is dinner, wine, and the most amazing night ending with making love while Sade plays in the background. Needless to say that did not occur — and frankly has yet to happen.

As I grew older, I became less fixated on Valentine’s Day. Don’t get me wrong … Love is amazing and I really do believe celebrating it is essential in life. But there is something cheesy and unromantic to me about Valentine’s Day now. Uh, oh, have I fallen into the bitter girl attitude? No, I would just rather a man want to show me he loves me in his own way, and on any other day of the year just because that’s the way he feels, and not because Hallmark says he should. Look, there is nothing wrong with being excited about Valentine’s Day, buying roses, sexy lingerie, and celebrating it, but there is something wrong with basing how a man or woman feels about you on their behavior on that one day out of 365. I’ve seen a lot of women pressuring their men into making a grand romantic gesture just because it’s Valentine’s Day. And to that I ask, what has he done for you every other day of the year? Does he text you good morning everyday? Cook dinner for you? Sit through that damn chick flick every time you want to watch it? Is he as nice to your family as he is to his? Tell you you’re beautiful when you’re not dressed up? Pull you close when you’re cold? Talk about you to his friends? Cuddle with you? These are all things any girl would love to have in her life everyday, so realize that although Valentine’s Day is technically February 14, if you have a man or woman in your life that does any of these things, well, then you have Valentine’s Day every day of the year.

NFL, Players React To Michael Sam Coming Out

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NFL Responds As Michael Sam Comes Out
NFL prospect Michael Sam and former Missouri Tigers defensive end comes out to the New York Times and ESPN in a move that he hopes to make him the first openly gay player.

“I am an openly, proud gay man,” The 24-year-old All-American graduate said. “It’s a big deal. No one has done this before. And it’s kind of a nervous process, but I know what I want to be … I want to be a football player in the NFL.”

The NFL responded with a statement of support and expressing they’re hopeful he will join the league in 2014.

“We admire Michael Sam’s honesty and courage. Michael is a football player. Any player with ability and determination can succeed in the NFL. We look forward to welcoming and supporting Michael Sam in 2014.”

Sam is projected to be selected in the early rounds of the upcoming NFL draft in May. He decided to come out now because he sensed the rumor mills were fully abuzz. He came out to his Missouri teammates during a team-building exercise and they showed their support for his decision.

“We’re really happy for Michael that he’s made the decision to announce this, and we’re proud of him and how he represents Mizzou,” Pinkel said. “Michael is a great example of just how important it is to be respectful of others, he’s taught a lot of people here first-hand that it doesn’t matter what your background is, or your personal orientation, we’re all on the same team and we all support each other,” Missouri head coach Gary Pinkel said in a statement.

 

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Sam is receiving love and support from established football players and professional athletes through social media. Former Missouri Tigers football player and Kansas City Chiefs Quarterback Chase Daniel showed his support:

 

Tampa Bay Buccaneers tightend Tom Crabtree tweeted:

  Jason Collins, the reserve basketball player who came out last year posted,

 John Amaechi, who announced he was gay after retiring from the NBA tweeted today:

 

Yesterday, Deion Sanders weighed in, gently reminding people exactly where Sam stands as far as ‘firsts’ go:

 

Why Did Diahann Carroll Break Out On Denzel?

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Maybe it was just too good to be true.

Diahann Carroll’s much anticipated return to The Great White Way — after 30+ years — isn’t going to happen after all.  The acclaimed actress, set to play opposite Denzel Washington in a new revival of Lorraine Hansberry’s A Raisin in the Sun, has quit the show.

Production spokesman Philip Rinaldi confirmed that Carroll withdrew from the production due to the vigorous demands of the rehearsal and performance schedule.

“The pace of filming movies and TV projects is quite different than the extensive amount of time preparing and appearing ‘live’ on Broadway 8 times a week,” Carroll said in a statement on Sunday. “I enjoyed working with Scott Rudin, Denzel Washington, Kenny Leon and an amazing cast and I wish them well.”

The show, also starring Anika Noni Rose, Sophie Okonedo, Jason Dirden, David Croner, Stephen McKinley Henderson and Sean Patrick Thomas, started rehearsals at the Ethel Barrymore Theatre two weeks ago. LaTanya Richardson Jackson (wife of Samuel L. Jackson) has assumed Carroll’s role.

In an interview in the February edition of Playbill magazine, the Tony and Golden Globe Award winning actress opened up about her anxiety with returning to Broadway after such a lengthy absence.

“It’s because it’s certainly a very difficult thing to do and as we all know it is eight times a week and that is something for a woman who is my age to take into consideration very seriously,” Carroll, 78, said.  She described it was “a long process of getting physically well and happy as possibly as one can.”

“And that’s the big to-do at the moment for me, the discipline,” she added.

Carroll, the first African American woman to win a Best Actress in a Musical Tony Award for 1962’s No Strings Attached, was last seen on Broadway in 1983’s Agnes of God.

The Bronx native, nominated for a Best Actress Academy Award in 1974 for the title role in Claudine, was also the first Black woman to front a sitcom — in a non-stereotypical role — with the 1968 NBC series Julia.

She currently stars in USA network’s White Collar and recently wrapped a movie titled A Masked Saint.

Richardson Jackson will replace Carroll in the role of Lena Younger, the matriarch of the family drama set in 1950s Chicago, is a longtime friend of Washington’s.  She made her Broadway debut in the 2009 revival of the August Wilson play Joe Turner’s Come And Gone.

An accomplished (and underrated) actress in her own right, Richardson Jackson has countless off-Broadway credits including Love, Loss and What I Wore,  Casanova, For Colored Girls…, From the Mississippi.  She has appeared in the films Mothers and Daughters, The Fighting Temptations, Fried Green Tomatoes, and Malcolm X.  Some of her TV credits include 100 Centre Street, Introducing Dorothy Dandridge, Unchained Memories: Slave Narratives, The Civil War and One Life to Live.

For some who may have raised eyebrows about Washington, at 59, being too long in the tooth to portray the 35-year old-ish Walter Lee Younger character, the casting of Richardson Jackson may be more perplexing; she’s only five years Washington’s senior — and portraying his mother.

But the casting of this fabled play was also brought into question during its 2004 revival, also helmed by Leon. Hip-hop mogul Sean “Diddy” Combs joined theatre vets Audra McDonald and Phylicia Rashad for the much buzzed-about revival. “Will the very 21st-century figure who is Mr. Combs, whose career has been a sustained triumph of nerve over probability, be able to turn into a man of continually thwarted dreams of the mid-20th century? Will he prove that you don’t need long years of experience and training to knock ‘em dead on Broadway? “ questioned New York Times theatre critic Ben Brantley in his mostly negative review of the revival.  “Clearly, Mr. Combs has left lots of space for Walter to grow. Unfortunately, that space is never filled,” Brantley concluded.

Despite the scrutiny, that version of the play became a box-office success and was adapted into a highly rated ABC television movie event.  Washington seems to be one of the few of Hollywood’s A-list stars to have a Midas Touch on The Great White Way.  Despite abysmal reviews for 2005’s Julius Caesar, it was one of the hottest tickets in town.  He and co-star Viola Davis enjoyed much fanfare and ended up winning Tony Awards for the 2010 revival of August Wilson’s Fences, which was also directed by Leon.

A Raisin in the Sun is scheduled to begin performances March 8 and is set to run for a 14-week limited engagement scheduled through June 15.

 

RHOA Pajama Party Brawl: Who’s To Blame?

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RHOA Atlanta Pajama BrawlLast night, the second part of the RHOA Pajama Party Brawl aired, showing the aftermath of the Apollo Nida beat down and a near altercation between Kandi Burruss and Cynthia Bailey’s sister Malorie Bailey-Massie.

Minutes after the fight between Apollo and Kenya Moore’s assistant Brandon DeShazer was broken up, Kandi took the floor to address Christopher Williams’ wife Natalie about her opinion of her fiancé Todd Tucker. The conversation escalated into fight number two, as Kandi had to be pulled away from Malorie while shouting, “I will drag you in this bitch!”

During the rest of the episode, Kandi attempted to gather the women together for a “come to Jesus” moment, which ended with more arguing. NeNe Leakes yelled at Kenya and blamed her for causing the initial fight, saying her action of running up to Christopher caused a domino effect of confrontation.

After the episode, many of the cast mates took the time out to address their actions on the episodes.

Kandi posted on Facebook: “I know we’re suppose 2 have self control as we get older but Im not down 4 people walkin all up on me being all aggressive pointin n my face.” The pint-sized singer continued, “Three people were pulling me back & I was going insane…I so regret it now.”

While many of the cast members were apologizing, others continued to play the blame game.

NeNe released a controversial statement referring to DeShazer as a woman. “Her girlfriend in the red pajamas jumped up in Chris’s face and that’s when the explosion started,” she wrote. “In my opinion Kenya was the spark that lit the fire. Whenever she’s around, we have the worst times!”

RHOA PANeNe did, however, apologize for her actions: “I’ve been on this show from the very beginning and we have NEVER had a physical altercation on this show! I think it’s a sad display of behavior and I think it is sad to the black community to be a part of such negative activity! I am bigger, I am better and for that I apologize!”

After the episode, Kenya sat down with Andy Cohen on Bravo’s “Watch What Happens Live” and threw the blame in Apollo and NeNe’s direction.

“I believe it was NeNe. She set the tone in the room. She agitated everyone from the time I walked in … She was out of control. She was acting very hyped up on something…She was not acting herself,” the former Miss USA said.  “…The world is saying it’s NeNe’s fault and Apollo’s fault, but none of the ladies can stand up to her and call her out on what she’s done.”

As these are adults — many with children of their own — watching the altercation, it seems that instead of playing the blame game, they could take the stance of apologizing and learning from their actions.

You’re Not BUILT For Success Unless You’re Chinese, Indian, Or Jewish

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Whether you are an avid reader, chances are you’ve heard about Amy Chua‘s book Battle Hymn of the Tiger Mother, which was published in 2011. The book affirmed the author’s belief that her strict style of “Chinese” parenting gave her children a unique advantage in the U.S. where “western” parenting appeared to be much more lax. Chua received a lot of backlash for her theories, to which she defended herself by stating that the book was tongue-in-cheek and people were taking it far too serious. But it seems in her latest book, The Triple Package: How Three Unlikely Traits Explain the Rise and Fall of Cultural Groups in America, she is back to letting everyone know why Chinese culture is superior to others, but her tongue is no longer planted firmly in her cheek. These are her very real — and very problematic — theories. Basically, you’re not BUILT for success unless you’re Chinese, Indian, or Jewish.

Chua’s latest book, co-written by her Jewish husband Jed Rubenfeld, identifies the eight specific ethnic groups in America who are the most successful as: Chinese, Mormon, Cuban, Nigerian, Jewish, Indian, Lebanese, and Iranian. Then, the book attempts to explain that people in these groups all share three specific traits that give them an advantage over all other cultures:

1. A sense of superiority
2. Deep Insecurity
3. Impulse control

Although this book offers a myriad of caveats, the authors want you to know that you’re not BUILT for success like these other cultural groups, simply because the three traits needed to be successful are more ingrained in those ethnic groups than others. But if I could sit down with Chua and Rubenfled, I would ask them to define “success” and then explain why their definition is any more relevant than anyone else’s?

And herein lies the problem with all of the conversations we typically have about “success” in America — it’s too heavily predicated on salary and scholastic achievements. In The Triple Package, as in life, there’s little mention about being a “good person.” So essentially, you can deem yourself to have won at life solely based on your bank account balance and the string of letters after your name, and if you are a maladjusted, chronically-depressed, emotionally-unavailable, unpleasant, and ignorant person, that has little bearing on how you should be judged in terms of your level of accomplishment. And it’s precisely this kind of bullshit thinking that is ruining modern western civilization.

We now consider excellence in the arts to be a thing only worthy of hobbies, as opposed to careers we actually respect. If you’re a dancer, a painter, or a poet, you aren’t judged on the beauty of your work, but on how much money you’ve made in your respective field. We now judge people by their tangible accomplishments instead of praising their intrinsic character. Who cares if you are a caring and loving person, how many degrees do you have?

Look, I’m not advocating that we ignore the business contributions made by the titans of industry so we can give more hugs and gold stars to “nice” people, but I am advocating that we begin to develop a more well-rounded ideology of success. Instead of just using someone’s net worth to judge their ascendency, let’s also recognize people and cultures that promote unity, love, work-life balance, and raising emotionally mature children. Once we start doing that, then we can come back to this discussion about what cultures are achieving the most success. But if this conversation is going to be predicated solely on finance, then we are light years away from scratching the surface on what ethnic groups truly experience the most happiness and success.

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Lincoln Anthony Blades blogs daily on his site ThisIsYourConscience.com, he’s an author of the book “You’re Not A Victim, You’re A Volunteer” and a weekly contributor for UPTOWN Magazine. He can be reached via Twitter @lincolnablades and on Facebook at This Is Your Conscience.

Kevin Hart & Ice Cube’s ‘Ride Along’ Hits $100 Million Mark

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Ride Along Hits $100 Million MarkThere seems to be no stopping Kevin Hart and Ice Cube’s star power as Ride Along passed the $100 million mark this past weekend.

“I have good luck working with comedians,” Ice Cube told UPTOWN, referencing the Friday franchise with co-stars Chris Tucker and Mike Epps.

RELATED: Confessions: Mike Epps Gets Serious About Repentance

That luck was once again realized as Ride Along pulled in $9.4 million this weekend, pushing the box office past the $100 million mark. In total, the movie has grossed $105 million worldwide on a $25 million budget.

The buddy comedy, also co-starring Tika Sumpter and Laurence Fishburne, is breaking records all around in spite of being released just over a month ago. The movie brought in $41 million during its opening weekend, setting a new record for January and Martin Luther King Jr. holiday releases. If the ticket sales increase, the movie could be one of the top grossing films of 2014. Not to mention, Ride Along is a back-to-back number one for Tim Story and production partner Will Packer. The team brought Think Like a Man to theaters in 2012. The film, which grossed $96 mil, fell just short of the $100 million mark. The sequel Think Like a Man Too will be released this summer. Both movies co-star Hart.

Standup comedian turned actor Hart has a full plate with the romantic comedy About Last Night being released Valentine’s Day. Michael Ealy, Joy Bryant, and Regina Hall will co-star. Hart also has School Dance coming this year.

Next, Ice Cube will be seen in 22 Jump Street and an animated film The Book of Life. He also says an NWA biopic is in the works.


Lights & Sirens: Reality Stars With Real Legal Troubles

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Reality television is everyone’s favorite guilty pleasure. On any given channel, you can watch husbands, wives, mothers, and children spend ludicrous amounts of money, throw hilarious shade, and get into monumental arguments, all while pretending they don’t notice the camera crew flanking them on both sides. Some of our most beloved celebrities are products of the reality TV machine. But sometimes their on-screen antics make for serious problems off-camera. Keep reading to see the reality stars with real legal troubles.

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Domonique Scott starred on the since-cancelled TLC show “The Sisterhood,” as a reformed ghetto girl and pull-no-punches First Lady. She and husband Brian had fallen on hard times and were unable to keep the doors of their church open. So Scott started a tutoring business to help make ends meet. But what viewers didn’t see was … well, the tutoring. The company was a complete fraud, and had scammed the Department of Education out of federal funding. She is currently incarcerated, and could serve up to 25 years in prison with a $400,000 fine.

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While she certainly wasn’t a “Basketball Wives” star, Nia Crooks was a frequent topic of conversation after a physical altercation during a day at the races. Crooks, who was previously friends with Jennifer Williams and worked as Evelyn Lozada‘s assistant, struck Williams during an argument. And Williams chose to press charges (much to the dismay of showrunner Shaunie O’Neal). While Crooks dodged prison, she was slapped with a year’s probation, mandatory anger management courses, a $645 fine, an apology letter to Williams, and a restraining order.

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Andrea Clevenger was a cast member of TLC’s “Cheer Perfection,” which documented the lives of competitive cheerleaders and their overbearing parents. In January, the 34-year-old mom was accused of engaging in sexual activity with a 13-year-old boy at least three times, as well as sending him pornographic photos. She turned herself in to Arkansas authorities, and was charged with rape. She was released from police custody with a GPS-tracking ankle bracelet.

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Apollo Nida, husband of “Real Housewives of Atlanta” star Phaedra Parks, has always had a bit of a murky past. When he was first introduced on the show, it was revealed that he had done jail time just before he and Parks were married. Later reports uncovered a colorful criminal history which includes felony possession of a firearm and vehicle theft. His most recent arrest, in January, resulted in charges of identity theft and bank fraud.

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Alexis Neiers captured America’s hearts (and banking information) on E!’s “Pretty Wild” as a spoiled teenager with an unconventional hobby: breaking into celebrity homes and stealing. She offered audiences many memorable quotes, including an infamous voicemail to Vanity Fair‘s Nancy Jo Sales, after the magazine printed an article about her criminal activity. After the show wrapped, she spent 30 days in jail, followed by three years of probation and a court order to pay $600,000 of restitution. Her story inspired the 2013 film The Bling Ring.

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Chrissy Lampkin (“Love & Hip Hop: New York,” “Chrissy & Mr. Jones”) has never shied away from a bar brawl. But her latest scuffle at a New Jersey club landed her in a holding cell (and her opponent in the hospital). She began pummeling another club patron after the woman allegedly sat on a couch she was sitting on and then bumped into her. According to authorities, the exchange was extremely bloody. Lampkin was bailed out by fiancé Jim Jones.

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Teresa and Joe Giudice are two hot-headed (and seemingly wealthy) cast members of Bravo’s “The Real Housewives of New Jersey.” Both have been involved in physical confrontations numerous times while the cameras were rolling. But in July, the couple was indicted on as many as 39 white collar criminal charges, including conspiracy to commit wire fraud, bank fraud, loan application fraud and bankruptcy fraud. They also neglected to file tax returns between 2004 and 2008.

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NFL player Chad “Ochocinco” Johnson was a frequent guest star on VH1′s “Basketball Wives” when he took up with cast member Evelyn Lozada. After the couple was engaged, the network greenlit a special series, “Ev & Ocho,” that would chronicle their wedding planning process. But after their nuptials, the two got into a violent argument, during which Johnson head-butted Lozada. She was taken to the hospital, and he was charged with domestic battery. VH1 subsequently pulled their series, and they were divorced after only two months of marriage.

Real Weddings: Elopement in Europe – Bre and Barry

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When Bre, a model, imagined her wedding day, it certainly didn’t involve eloping. But when former schoolmate Barry proposed to her that November, he expressed his desire to marry in a more spontaneous fashion. Barry, an IT consultant, had already booked a Christmas vacation for them and suggested that they elope while there.

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“I thought the idea was crazy and perfect,” says Bre, who hadn’t even an inkling of where they were going. In fact, it wasn’t until they were boarding the plane that Bre learned they were destined for Paris! But what she didn’t know was that Barry planned for them to exchange their vows and immediately depart for their honeymoon (the location of which would also be a surprise). When the couple arrived in Paris at 5:00am, they took a taxi to Sacré- Coeur, and in what Bre describes as a magical moment, climbed the stairs to the top and exchanged vows just as the sun was rising. Later that day, the couple flew to Italy, where Barry arranged for one of Bre’s favorite photographers to document the special occasion.

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As a model, the photo shoot was a dream come true for Bre. “It was amazing and made a MUCH better story than the silly little wedding I had imagined,” Bre admits. While honeymooning in Italy, the couple visited Venice, Florence and Rome.

Photos: Benj Haisch | Gown: Vintage, Thrift Store | Suit: Paul Smith | Venue: Wedding in Paris; Wedding Photos in Italy | Wedding Coordinator: The Groom | Dessert: Italian Gelato | Entertainment: Christmas Eve Mass at St. Marks in Venice | Paris, France | 12.24.11

It’s NOT Black People’s Job To “Look Beyond Race”

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Last week, I was having an interesting conversation with one of my friends, in which she and I discussed a joke my favorite comedian, Bill Burr, said during one of his standup specials. He made a hilarious observation about how racism today is less about angry, over-the-top Klansmen yelling profanities at minorities, and more about quiet, seemingly-innocuous conversations with a vile twist.

As we continued talking, she said something that I have been trying to articulate for years: “I think the new racism is white people telling us to stop focusing so much on race, as if we get some pleasure out of prejudice.” This is what we both refer to as “21st century hate” and/or “liberal racism.” While this type of racist hate is not predicated on outwardly divisive rhetoric, it’s much more damaging because it attempts to erase the story of Blacks altogether. It takes very reasonable and rational claims of prejudice or discrimination, and turns it on its head to make the victim seem like the villain. Its end goal is to make all people from all ethnic groups believe that racism only exists, because we refuse to stop playing the race card and rejoin polite society as equals.

When I learned about the verdict in the Jordan Davis murder trial, I was hell-bent on learning why the jury couldn’t convict Michael Dunn with either first-degree or second-degree murder or even manslaughter. Why couldn’t those men and women come to an agreement about what Dunn did before having to declare a mistrial on the murder charge? As I scrolled through various news stories, forums, and social media sites, I read the comments and I noticed a theme that would’ve made me laugh, if I wasn’t so sick with grief. Mostly white commenters were telling the angry, frustrated, and confused Black commenters that they need to “look beyond race” and stop making this a “big race issue,” That liberal racism strikes again.

When George Zimmerman killed Trayvon Martin, Black folks were told “don’t play the race card” because the issue was about a young thug versus a neighborhood-watching civilian. TV analysts even stepped in front of the camera to blame the hoodie as the main culprit in Martin’s death.

When Jonathan Ferrell was gunned down by North Carolina police while seeking help after suffering through a horrific car crash, Black folks were told to “not jump to any conclusions about race being a factor,” because the officer would have reacted if any man Ferrell’s size had ran at him.

Whenever an innocent and unarmed Black man is gunned down by a white man, African Americans aren’t even allowed to express anger at the senseless killing, before we are instructed to “stop complaining about race,” and stop ignoring our own community’s issues with “Black-on-Black crime,” the biggest bullshit media-term ever created.

But how can the Black community view tragedies without the prevalent lens of race, when that is a very prominent part of our existence? Racism has never been defeated and white privilege hasn’t decreased. Black folks are still targeted and profiled by the police at a high rate which makes us the primary targets of the prison-industrial complex. Race affects us everyday, yet we are told not to “dwell” on it, as if we have the special ability to choose when we want to be oppressed or discriminated against.

And even with the best intentions, white peoples’ cries to “look beyond race” are aimed completely in the wrong direction. We understand whites may want to live in an equal, colorblind, and post-racial society, but telling us to ignore how systemic prejudice affects our everyday-life just so they can revel in the concept of a united world is wholly unfair. If they’ve never dealt with the issues that Black folks constantly face in our modern Western society, then it’s ignorant to instruct us on how to deal with it. Believe me, we’ve spent our lives trying to figure that out. And many great men and women before us lost their lives trying to fight for exactly that.

The truth is, it’s NOT Black people’s job to “look beyond race.” It’s the job of the society we live in to relinquish its inherent and systemic racism. Asking Black folks to treat everyone like equals is akin to asking rape victims to stop looking so tantalizing to rapists, without simply demanding that men stop raping. Black people have been ready and willing to see beyond color for decades, but racism and privilege can only be defeated by the people who wield the massive control of its existence — and it’s NOT us.

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Lincoln Anthony Blades blogs daily on his site ThisIsYourConscience.com, he’s an author of the book “You’re Not A Victim, You’re A Volunteer” and a weekly contributor for UPTOWN Magazine. He can be reached via Twitter @lincolnablades and on Facebook at This Is Your Conscience.

Jimmy Fallon Highlights: Hip Hop Dance Evolution and U2 x Roots Ordinary Love Mashup [VIDEO]

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The Tonight Show with Jimmy Fallon bowed yesterday and the verdict is in: gimme more!

Fallon’s nervous, nerdy intro segued into a drop by of all the ‘friends’ who bet he’d never host the Tonight ShowSarah Jessica Parker, Lindsay Lohan, Lady Gaga, Mike Tyson, Rudy Guliani, Tracy Morgan, Kim Kardashian, Joan Rivers, Stephen Colbert, Tina Fey – all of whom handed off a crisp Benjamin for losing the bet.

Keeping with Fallon tradition, the kickoff digital short delivered slightly off rhythm laughs in an Evolution of Hip Hop Dancing demo, starring the host and Will Smith.  To see Fallon really go for every move, even though it took him ever-so-slightly off beat,  was endearing and all the funnier.  You can tell Fallon was in his element with all things up to the 90′s (except for the Wop, see 0:45). But once they hit the Stanky Legg, it was all over and the rest of what came in  ’10s, including twerking.  Bless his heart.

 

Probably the most enjoyable part of show was U2′s semi-acoustic performance of “Ordinary Love” from the Mandela soundtrack.  I got chills once The Roots jumped into the mix.  (Sidebar: Both this and Sade’s song of the same name belong on a beachy R&R soundtrack.)  Grab a rum daquiri and check the performance below.

 

Mama Joyce Explains What Type Of Man She Wants For Kandi

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She’s made it clear that she doesn’t think Todd Tucker is the right man for her daughter, so what kind of man would Mama Joyce like for Kandi Burruss?

“I would like a real man, a man that just looks at her and thinks that she’s the prize, the way I look at her,” Mama Joyce told Sister 2 Sister.

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Did George Zimmerman Join Twitter?

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Looks like George Zimmerman is tired of hiding and only speaking his mind during ridiculous live interviews. The face of ‘Stand Your Ground’ and the man who killed Trayvon Martin in cold blood now seems to have a Twitter page. That’s right. Tweets from Zimmerman himself.

While his account has yet to be verified by Twitter as a celebrity page, it looks like @TheRealGeorgeZ is, in fact, George Zimmerman. In his profile picture, Zimmerman looks to be holding a portrait of the American flag emphasizing the words “God” and “…liberty and justice for all.”

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Diddy’s Baby’s Mother Is Facing Home Foreclosure

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Diddy’s baby’s mother is facing home foreclosure for her New York McMansion.

The home of Misa Hylton, the mother of hip-hop superstar and entrepreneur Sean “Diddy” Combs‘ son Justin, is under foreclosure from the bank.

In 2003, Combs purchased a posh, three bedroom, 3,215 square foot house in Westchester, New York for Hylton, a celebrity stylist and former model. According to legal documents, Combs took out a $712,000 mortgage, but as of 2010, payments were no longer received. The balance owed totals over $600,000 plus accruing interest. The bank is threatening to auction the pad off if the balance is not paid.

Money is not an issue for multihyphenate Combs. Last September, he topped the Forbes list as the highest paid hip hop artist, earning a whopping $50 million in the 12 months prior.

The old lovers seemed to be cordial with one another, presenting an amiable friendship. In September of 2012, Combs Instagrammed a pic of the two at their son’s football game. The photo was captioned with: “Me and my first girlfriend and mother to my child. Friends forever.” Justin, 20, is currently on a full scholarship to UCLA.

Last season, Hylton appearance was on Bravo’s “The Real Housewives of New Jersey.” She was “shopping” for a new home with a real estate agent. Maybe the appearance was for exposure, an attempt to join the cast, or maybe, just maybe, she saw the foreclosure writing on the wall of her home.


Ravens Ray Rice And Fiancé Arrested For Assaulting Each Other

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Baltimore Ravens star running back Ray Rice and fiancé Janay Palmer were arrested in Atlantic City early Saturday morning for attacking each other.

Surveillance footage captured the couple engaging in a physical dispute in the Revel Casino. Rice, 27 and Palmer, 26 were charged with simple assault and domestic dispute for striking one another with their hands.

“There was an argument that included Ray,” said Michael Diamondstein, an attorney hired to represent Rice told the Baltimore Sun before the police report had been released. “I can’t give any specifics because we haven’t seen the document yet. Once we’re able to go through the evidence, it should wind up to be little more than a misunderstanding.”

Conflicting stories about the extent of the altercation has circulated. Black Sports Online reports that Rice struck Palmer with an uppercut, knocking her unconscious after she spit on him. But Andrew Alperstein, Rice’s attorney, described the dispute as a “very minor physical altercation.”

The couple, who has known each other since high school and has been engaged since 2011, refused medical attention and reported no injuries. The couple have a daughter, Rayven, together.

Black Comic Writers Geek Out

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Storm, Black Panther, Spawn — most folks who are at least vaguely familiar with comics can identify these three Black characters.  But how many Black comic writers can you name? How about Jackie Ormes, who is considered to be this country’s first African-American woman cartoonist, or Billy Graham, who is best-known for his work at Marvel Comics. Today, there is a growing number of Black comic writers around the country that are challenging norms and offering their spin on serious topics, such as the country’s socio-economic structure, religion and even sex. Recently, the second annual Black Comic Book Festival occurred in Harlem, New York. There, comic book lovers and creators gathered to celebrate their favorite stories and discuss the state of the industry.

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Love and Money: Dealing with Financial Crisis While in Love

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You promised to love each other during the good times and bad. But sometimes the bad times come sooner and more often than we’d like. Combine those bad times with financial trouble, and you’ve got a very unpleasant situation.

We asked financial expert Jacquette Timmons, president and CEO of Sterling Investment Management and author of the book Financial Intimacy ($11, Chicago Review Press), to tell us how to keep it together when our financial world (and potentially our relationship) begins to fall apart.

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Five Ways Kanye’s Rants Inspire Career Revival

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Kanye West has an interesting knack with words. He also has a unique way of unnerving people with those words. Whether you are a fan of his music or not, you must admit that his rants— as they have become so infamously dubbed—are quite entertaining to say the very least.

I may be in the minority when I say I find Mr. West’s super-charged outbursts unusually inspiring, so I was actually disappointed when I heard he was going to make a concerted effort to do less ranting in 2014. Navigating your career at times can feel daunting, frustrating, and taxing, and no one is immune, not even the multi-millionaire superstar.

I completely empathize with the super producer/creative mastermind, finding inspiration on leadership and career development within the madness.

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Your Hot Pockets Might Contain Diseased Bull Testicles

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Please rethink your quick and easy dinner plans if they involved Hot Pockets. Unless you have a taste for ”diseased and unsound animals.”

Walmart and Giant Food are among the chains pulling frozen hamburger patties, Hot Pockets Philly Steak & Cheese and Croissant Crust Philly Steak & Cheese from shelves on the heels of a recall by meat processor Rancho Feeding Corporation.

According to the USDA news release, the products are “unwholesome or otherwise are unfit for human food and must be removed from commerce.”  The Class 1 recall issued February 14, 2014 noted,  ”beef products associated with recall 13 were shipped to distribution centers and retail establishments in California, Florida, Illinois, Oregon, Texas and Washington.”

Rancho recalled a total of 8,742,700 pounds of beef and veal products – everything it processed in 2013. The USDA release detailed the animal cuts that could possibly be contaminated, and the list is as alarming as the health issue itself.

Beef omasum (stomach), beef feet, beef tripe, veal trim, and mountain oysters (yes, bull calf testicles to you) are among the products that were not properly inspected at the Rancho facility and later provided to processed food manufacturers like Hot Pockets.

While I may enjoy eating high on the hog now, as the offspring of southern descendants, I’m no stranger to the nasty bits.  Any chef will tell you these have the most flavor and by virtue of them being the nasty bits, the price is certainly right. But I’ll tell you what.  Methinks the Hot Pockets lovers would like a little more transparency on the ingredient list. Because who wouldn’t like a little to know exactly how one defines ‘cooked beef steak ground & formed’?  And ‘Flavors’ is a wee bit vague too. Just let me know if I’m about to ingest bull appendages and let me make the decision on that. My foot can go in my mouth, but a bull’s foot cannot.

No illnesses have been reported to date. Aside from everyone who threw up in their mouths just a little bit at thought of consuming diseased bull testicles.

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